I take losses calmly. Unless I dedicate my entire life to jiu-jitsu, I cannot expect toI win every competition. Of course, I want to win and I do my best but first and foremost, competition is material for reflection rather than confirmation of status.
After a loss, you can break down the details: which technique caught you, where your defense failed, what you need to improve, and whether you can incorporate that same technique into your own game.
One example stands out. When I decided to return to jiu-jitsu, I signed up for the World Championship, one of the most prestigious tournaments in the sport. I trained every day for two months and cut 10 kilograms to make my weight class. Then I lost within the first 40 seconds of the tournament. Forty seconds — and that was it. I was out.
But winning had never been my primary objective. I needed the competition as motivation to train, so I took the result philosophically. Later, when my preparation became more serious, I went on to win gold medals.
I still remember almost all of my losses, while I cannot remember every victory. Business works in a similar way: a mistake is only useful if you are willing to examine it without deceiving yourself. You have to admit where a hypothesis failed, what you overlooked in the product, which conversation went wrong, and what needs to change in the next attempt.
In sport, performance depends heavily on routine and consistency: training, sleep, nutrition, recovery, and a clear schedule. Startups work differently. You constantly have to change, adapt to the market, talk to users, partners, and competitors, test hypotheses, and search for a formula that works.
From what I see among the founders I work with, the hardest part of building a startup is neither scaling nor raising capital. It is finding the moment when the product and the market finally align.
To get there, you need to remain open-minded and creative. And that is not simply an innate personality trait; it is a skill that can be trained just like technique on the mat: continuously testing hypotheses, recording the results, changing tactics, and being prepared to see something new. Often, it is not what you originally wanted to see.
In this sense, jiu-jitsu reminds me that work without a system will not take you very far. A startup teaches the opposite lesson: a system that was correct yesterday may need to be rebuilt today. Ultimately, the speed of iteration matters more than confidence in your first idea. Success is determined not by how tightly you hold on to the original hypothesis, but by how quickly and honestly you test and change it.
An entrepreneur needs both skills at the same time: the persistence of a fighter and the adaptability of someone who is constantly adjusting to a new opponent.